Human beings are the greatest creation when compare to the other creatures.
As per the scientific approach, We are not going to born again

or With spiritual approach We are not going to born again  with him as my brother and with her as my sister or whatever it may be.

Marriage is the very important event, happiest moment, enjoyable function in our life.

Considering the Psychological factor, physical factor and with the explosion of population, the Government fixes the minimum age as 18 for girls and 21 for boys.This may vary in future.

Parents and great parents are the most enjoyable persons to conduct the marriage ceremony to their lovable kids.

There is no yardstick to count or check the joy. Definitely, the parents should be reaching or crossed 50's, while they are conducting the marriage of their wards.
It is obvious that, they will be living at stressfull life.

That stress itself acts as catalysis for the existing / hidden diseases.

Also Due to the over joy, their diabetic level or Blood Pressure level or Asthma level or ulcer levels may shoots upwards in a linear way.
Simple reason not caring their health conditions.
So it is mandatory that, they should undergo the medical checkup

In the modern trend, the elites are conducting the marriages in the Temples in a very, very simple manner.
And Celebrates the same in the name of Wedding Receptions, twice or more in different places categorizing as 

Invitations.

Dont discuss with each other whom should be invited.
Advice All of your family members should Prepare a Mailing list separately.

Mailing list may be categorized as for friends, colleagues and for relatives.

Invitation list may be created either by geographical wise or Generations wise.

All the list should be mixed together and again divided in two divisions like Postal and personal.

In these modern days, it is very difficult to invite everyone in person. Hence postal invitations should be dispatched immediately .

And it is your duty that, you should call them over phone and politely explain your shortage and need of the time and as well as invite them for the function.

How much crowd will attend ?
It�s a million dollar question.

The answer is How much you are popular that much of the crowds will attend any functions.

For simple calculation,
We presume that, You had invited with 500 invtiations.

Deducting 100, approximately 20%, Balance 400 invitees will visit with their spouse and childrens, on and average two per invitations, around 800 persons may visit the marriage.

This ratio may vary here and there. Keep it in mind that to provide the infrastructure for above.

Inviting thousands of peoples are not the issue, but we have to provide the very basic infrastruture facilities like boarding, lodging, secuirty etc.

Keeping the present days trend, it is not advisable to hold a very long gathering in one place that too for a very long time.

Purchasing the Dresses.

Buying the silk saree for the bride and other dresses for kiths and kins is the important process in the marriage ceremony. For some families, difference of opinions may arise in this part.

We are living in the carry bag era. So we use to enter into the textile shops with free hands. For eg. we may purchase twenty items in that shops. The shop owners will pack twenty items in different twenty carry bags.

Normally accompanist has to carry ten bags in each hands. They use move to the other section and buys additionally five or six bags, which will be incresed luggage for the accompanist.

Here are the chances for theft or losing the bags. By adopting few methods we can overcome this problems. 

Consolidate all the bags in to a single bag or bundle it with the jute ropes as much as possible. or if necessary buy a gunny bag like a thing and consolidate into it instead of blaming others later.

Select few volunteers from your friends circle and delegate the important portfolios to them.

Both the bride and bridegroom family members should receive jointly  welcome all the relatives.

In this juncture you should not run after Coriander or black neem leaves.
why should not employ the relatives ?

Even the spouse will expect the
royal treatment,
red carpet welcome,
where as the friends will be ready to dive in to the ditches without any hesitation.

Chairs should be properly arranged.

Don�t dump the chairs very near to the Marriage dais. Which will obstruct, all people especially photographer, videographer, video audio mixer/Composer etc. 

Normally  Early birds will occupy the last rows, a row very near to the exit,  keeping them ready to quit as early as possible. Initially 75% of chairs may be arranged in a proper way.

If required additional chairs can be placed accordingly.

Back Drop.

Event managers provides neatly decorated back drops  (preferably in dark colours)   with too much of plastic flowers too much or linings in attractive colours on the dais.

Keep it in mind, backdrops colour should be in contrast to the bride and bridegrooms dresses.  Normally we use to take dark colour dresses. 

Still photos will gives a good quality picture If we have  backdrop in light colour with less designs.

Advice the marriage hall manager to employ the person the set the chairs back in a position 30 minutes after the completion of the marriage ceremony.

This activity is frees the public to move freely. This would disperse the crowd politely.